[Part 1 of 2]
If not, keep reading because I made it my personal goal to teach you how.
In my last post, I started telling you about the importance of stimulating her biggest sexual organ. And now, as promised, here is the “how-to”:
To build the emotional connection with a woman that I discussed in “Her Biggest Sex Organ that Most Men Completely Ignore“, you have to understand how women think… Believe me, it’s not as hard as people make it out to be.
To understand women, you have to understand how deeply emotional (most) women are. If you haven’t learned this, I have no doubt that you will come to accept this with time.
You simply can not logic your way to a woman’s heart, no more than you can logic a woman into experiencing amazing full body orgasms.
Read that last statement again, because it is the core of any interaction with a woman. (There are always exceptions, but I would say that this applies to 95% of women or more.)
Once you build that emotional connection, you will actually be able to influence her emotions, by telling her how to feel, and THAT is a guaranteed way to give her the most AMAZING orgasms EVERY time.
Why do you think those trashy romance novels enjoy such tremendous popularity? Is it the great writing? or Maybe it’s the amazing story plots? The unexpected twist??? OFCOURSE NOT! The reason why women will always love trashy romance novels is because they are like food for their emotions. When they open the book, their imagination takes them so deep into the story line (no matter how cheesy it really is) that they can litteraly feel every word. It’s not uncommon for women to orgasm (or at least get very close to orgasm) during some of the heated parts of the book.
So now, what does that mean to the average guy?
It means that if you’re only focusing on the physical aspect of sex, you’re missing the boat. It IS true that some women will be able to orgasm and feel good, without “the story”, or “the adventure”, but you can’t even begin to imagine the pleasure you’re both missing out on when you’re able to create that passion inside of their mind.
Your job as a man is to create that fantasy for her.
Step 1: Learn her fantasies. All women have them, but they are not always the same. If you don’t know what they are, you will never know what really drives her wild. Most often you’ll be shocked to find out how dirty she really is.
Step 2: Set the mood. This is perhaps the biggest and most important part of having an amazing sex life. No, I am not talking about a candle lit dinner, or decorating her bed with flowers, there is no physical work required. The Mood is set with your words, with your gaze, the way you touch her. It is difficult for me to cover all of this in one post, so I whatever I leave out I will expand on later. If you can make her feel like a character in one of those romance novels, you won’t believe how powerful her orgasms will become.
So what’s the secret? How do you make her feel that way? Well, to learn that, you should probably pick yourself up one of these novels.
To put it simply however, it’s all in the details (or description) of seduction.
Part 2 (Action) will be coming out shortly, so stay tuned.
I welcome all questions, comments, and requests. If you submit a tip, fact, or technique, that could be of benefit to the community, I will gladly post it and give you the credit.