Don’t Waste Time Looking For Her G-Spot!!!

I’m so tired of all the Magazine experts comparing the G-Spot to the Holy Grail.  They make it out to be a goal to be strived for, implying that if you find this spot… you’re set!

Well, this post is dedicated to Joe (the average man without a medical degree), who wants to pleasure his partner very much, but is getting tired of searching for the Grail.

I’m here to give you facts and a simple How-To“:


 Before doing ANYTHING, I have to repeat a public service announcement on behalf of all the women out there:


Now that, that’s out of the way…

I’m not going to give you the detailed history behind the Gräfenberg spot, because I know you don’t really care. 

However, the Medical “Fact” about the G-Spot is that it’s located on the front wall of the vagina about 2 inches up (Imagine having superman’s X-Ray vision and staring at her pubic mound: you’d be staring right through it).  Since staring isn’t going to bring her any closer to orgasm, go ahead and stick your fingers in and feel around.  Assuming you took my advice about cutting your nails, I promise she won’t mind letting you experiment 😉

Now I’m going to give you the kind of sex advice you’re not going to hear from ANYONE else.


I know, I know,  I said it before in the title, but here’s why:

There is a misguided belief that this “magical spot” is about half an inch in diameter and all the pleasure-bringing nerve endings that can be found in her vagina are in that tiny circle.  (No wonder we can’t seem to find it!!)

This belief is the understatement of the century.  The ENTIRE front wall of the vagina is covered in “magical” pleasure-bringing nerve endings.  Stop looking for the one spot and just touch them all.

The “How-to”:  Slide one or two, well lubricated, fingers inside of her vagina (palm up) and curl your hand in a “come-hither” motion (I recommend sliding in the middle two fingers) … then start to massage upwards GENTLY and watch the magic happen.  You can put your fingers in as deep as you’d like.  Chances are, that 1inch, 2 in., or 3 in. won’t make a big difference! It will all feel great to her.  As she gets more used to the sensation, you will find that she will more than likely prefer your fingers to go in as deep as possible (Way past the G-Spot).

Stay tuned for a whole post dedicated to fingering techniques!

What’s been your take on the G-Spot?  Did I persuade you to call off the search??



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2 responses to “Don’t Waste Time Looking For Her G-Spot!!!

  1. I believe it has been shown conclusively that the so called ‘g spot” is in fact, the Female Prostate or “prostata feminina.” This is discussed fully in my article, “The Human Female Prostate and Its Relationship to the Popularized Term G Spot” which can be read at

    Also, if you read the original Grafenberg article (, it is clear that Grafenberg was talking about the female prostate. The term ‘G Spot’ was a brilliant marketing term created by the publishers of the 1984 best selling book, “The G-Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Sex.” It was an excellent choice in that the term ‘G-Spot’ has achieved high public recognition even though few people really understand what Grafenberg really meant.

    Gary Schubach, Ed.D., A.C.S.

  2. sexphd

    Doctor G – You are absolutely right that the term ‘G-Spot’ was a brilliant marketing term created by the publishers, and your article was a very good read, but I don’t believe that it has been shown conclusively that the G-spot is in fact, the Female Prostate. The G-spot is just a marketing term as you said before that refers to an extremely sensitive cluster of nerves.

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